I had a female friend tell me that guys who are hot really have to have something off about them to get the "creepy" label from girls.
Guys who aren't as attractive have less of a buffer zone between creepy and not creepy.
For instance, one example she gave was this scenario...
An awkward guy approaches you in a weird way at the coffee shop. It's obvious he's not confident and is very fidgety and is stumbling over his words.
If it's a physically attractive guy that is doing it, a girl might laugh and consider it cute that he's shy. If it's a guy who isn't too blessed with the looks, he'd automatically get the "creeper" label.
Is this accurate?
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creepy is perception, so it of course varies on the person and culture of a particular area. at least most of us of have negative asociations which certain things and we there call the person creapy when we get those asociations. its definitely true that if you are good enough looking you will be able to get away with things that the less attractive guy can't. but reason why that is has nothing to do with his looks, its because she is instanely attacted and less attractive guy has to build attraction with game. if you start touching and stuff before she's reached that level of atraction, that is when you are labeled a "creeper"
there are of course others factors like how in some culures (usualy suburban) that being reserved or shy is creepy, generally its not like that in cities because reserved are very common. I myself am a reserved and very socially awkward person and lived in suburban comminity in mass and was considered very creepy, I embrassed it because it kept people away from me (the one exception was anything rob related). my point is I didn't make excuses, I choose not interact with people and exepted the consequence. although I know you can only hide social akwardness to a certain point. bottom line if don't want to be a "creeper" then step your learn the art of pick-up (in the process you'll read about how not to be a creap) and learn what you don't know about social stuff. one way not to come off creepy is compliance testing. if your social intellegence is behind then going to bars and stuff and observe until you the pattern in behavoir0