We (men) judge women to an extent, but for the most part even if you're not the hottest girl in the world, we are happy to talk to you and have your attention. Can the same be said for women even if the guy isn't a straight up 9 or 10?
most of the guys I've liked wouldn't be considered 9 or 10s. yeah I notice the gorgeous guys but that doesn't mean that if an averagely cute guy approached me I wouldn't be interested. with guys, if he is cute but not a showstopper, he can increase his appeal based on how he acts and if the *spark* is there
Yea it can happen, cause you might not think you're a 9 or 10, but a girl might see you that way
and then there are people that look at personality more than looks, I guess it all depends on who the person is!