Just recently I've had to break up with a guy because he felt he wasn't good enough for me. I talked to a friend about it and she said that maybe I should look for tougher guys to fit my no bullsh*t kind of personality. This ended up sparking this question. Am I instead looking for the wrong kind of guy for me? I usually go for the nicer kind of guy that is goofy weird but in the end they all end up thinking there not good enough for me and I could do better.
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Going for a nicer guy isn't necessary the wrong thing to have done or to avoid if you're looking for change. Whether they have a nice or tough exterior doesn't matter as long as you have someone who challenges you. That's what it sounds like to me. It seems as if you get bored after a while. People have a left foot and right foot to walk straight, jump, run, etc. So when it comes to dating, you should find a guy who walks with you straight. Otherwise you'll keep veering left or right and get stuck like that eventually. Hope that made some sense for ya.0