Yesterday my boyfriend or ex broke up with me, after he got mad at me for not paying his bill that I said I would pay BUt I had GOOD to reason for not paying it and I did try I went the store but they would not let me then when fixing my internet I ran through my house and fell damaging my already injured knee.which I had to go to the hospital. when I got home an I love you message was on my myspace I reply back and then he started about me not paying the bill and then he ended it
He did not give me a reason but rather said he said he was over it. his exact words were "I'm over it bye." This wasn't even done in person but over a myspace message. Just a bit of information we were in a long distance relationship and in 9 months I was due to move down there(texas) to start school. I know he loves me he would tell me everyday.
Could I of did something to change this. Was this my fault? Guys please give me some insight on how you guys think in situations like this. GIrls please let me know how to handle this I have never been so heart broken
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This sounds like an emotional reaction because he was needing that bill payed. I'm not clear why you would be paying a bill for him but you seem ok with that. He is just ticked off at the moment because now he has to handle something he thought he had gotten you to take care of. I would watch out for guys like this. He may be trying to control you so that you do whatever he asks. Also as you get closer to moving close to him he may get scared. Its easy to sound committed when you are far apart but not so easy when you will be close together.
I don't think there was anything you could do differently and it wasn't your fault. I do hope you told him about the bill right away so he could try and do something about it. If you really want him back in your life you can check out some tips at link I'm not sure he's worth it but if you feel that strongly there are some tips to at least get talking again. Then anything could happen.2