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I'll tell you what they DON'T look for, I have stretched lobes, not too big, 0g (or 8mm) and the past 2 guys I've liked (including the current) does not like them one bit! So if you are just wanting to impress guys, don't do that! I just say that cause stretched lobes are a stereotypical "scene" thing.
Oh and don't cut yourself. They hate that too. I mean why would they wanna hold a girls hand and feel blood? I say that because its a stereotypical "emo" thing.
Okay in all seriousness, the outer appearance is just one aspect. Most (good) guys are gonna look for the same thing in a girl whether she is scene, emo, sporty, preppy, anything really. So unless you mean what do they look for outer wise, personality wise its all the same.1