If you pick a girl up on the first date and when she gets on the passenger side of her door she stands there waiting. For what, right? For you to open the door for her. How would you react and what will you think?
i think all women should be treated as ladies and opening the door for a woman is etiquette, Guys.
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I think if she expects to be treated like a queen, she should move to england. But if she shows the same respect/treatment to me, then I would be happy to reciprocate it. Even if in the smallest ways (Examples: Opening the door to our selected date location, offering to pay her portion of the bill, etc and so forth)..
But let me provide an example of where I can catch on to her: "I'm a queen" bullsh*t
- I pick her up and knock on her door, she's running a little behind schedule so she invites me in, I sit down in the living room. I accept and flip through some TV shows, she comes downstairs and says she's ready to go without sitting down. I look over my shoulder at her and then get up, we go to the door and out to the car.. Driving to the date location she talks completely about her day and asks a little about my day, but never sticks to the subject of my day as often as hers.. Then we arrive and walk in together, we're at the skate rink getting shoes, she tells me some more about herself; I offer my hand to hold as we skate; talk talk talk, talk talk talk; then the skate rink starts to close so we give our shoes back; she talks some more and on the way out to the car, I get in and she stands by the door. I mention the door is unlocked and she waits quietly, so I step back out of the car and tell her that she can get in.. Still nothing.. I ask her if something is wrong and she responds with "I'd like you to open the door for me".. I drive her home and never speak to her again.
That, ladies and gentlemen, is what's called personal boundaries. If you expect something to happen, it probably won't happen, and if you ask me to do something that should be spontaneously curteous (like chivalry); then I will assume your trying too hard to put yourself on a pedestal, which is a huge turn off and ultimately a dealbreaker.
*Takes a bow*