I'm just wondering because I frequently read that guys want girls that tell them what they don't want or expect from them like that coming to late to a date is a no-go, that he should call frequently...etc.
Otherwise a girl might come off as having no self-respect.
I have a problem with that because I don't like telling anyone what to do...I think they should figure that out themselves...also I'm shy and it's hard for me to make demands. So have I already lost in the "dating game"?
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I'm not sure that the article you read was meant to literally make demands. It might have been pointing out the fact that women like to drop hints, and us men tend to not catch them. Women are the smarter sex in my opinion, and as a man I often like to point out that I'm not psychic and can't read minds. What's obvious to a woman might not be so obvious to a man. So if you do feel strongly about something such as being late or calling frequently, just tell him. Don't beat around the bush with hints and clues. Men don't want to be bossed around, but we don't want to play games either. Just tell us what's on your mind if it is that important. Directly.1