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What are the signs that a guy is cheating on you?
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Signs of Cheating Men
You get that gut feeling that tells you he's cheating on you. Things just aren't adding up. You all of sudden feel the need to go through his belongings almost expecting to find something.
When you question your man he gets very defensive. He might even get mad at you to throw you off. He is hoping that you will put your thoughts of infidelity to rest if you are afraid to ask about it.
His stories aren't making sense. This is because he will make up a story at that time and for the moment not realizing that the date or times don't add up. He will sometimes forget what he told 3 days ago. So make a mental note and ask again casually in 3 days. Work will seem to pop up a lot to cover time lapses.
You discover e-mail accounts that you didn’t know existed. He will refuse to give you access to his email account. He's not stupid!
He doesn't invite you around his friends, company events, and other social activities. Is he cheating at work? It can be worse than a nightclub. There will probably be less of a chance that he is cheating at a night club.
Unusual mood swings. These are one of many signs of cheating men that is caused by the internal conflict and struggle that you man is going through during his time of infidelity.
The sex frequency has changed!
And last but not least yout gutt instinct tells you he is.1
• Conflicting Stories– In order for your boyfriend to cover up his cheating ways, he will need to come up with stories that will buy him time in order to see his lover. Over time, there will come times when his stories just don’t add up. Take note of these and casually ask him again in about 3 days to see if the story sticks.
• Distant Feeling– Even though “they” say men do not get physically attached when cheating, that is not usually the case. As your boyfriend gives a part of himself to his new lover, something will almost always be taken away from you and your relationship. He only has so much to go around and you will notice the “distancing” between you.
• Hidden Email Accounts- If your relationship is one of openness (you share email account), hidden email addressed is a very good way for him to hide his communication with his lover.
• Isolates You From Social Gatherings– Do you get that feeling that there is always an excuse for why you can’t go with him to a social gathering? Who is he hiding you from?
• Sex Frequency Changes– As I mentioned before, he only has so much to go around and the frequency of sex in your relationship usually suffers because of his cheating ways. In some instances your boyfriend may suddenly ask you to do things he never asked of you before during sex. As he encounters new exciting ways with his lover his subconscious may be trying to get you to be his lover.
• Suspicious Phone Calls– Are you noticing “private calls” at strange times? Does he walk away out of your hearing distance to take certain calls? The cell phone is still the most personal means of communication besides seeing him in person; so many times “she” will call to hear his voice. As the affair becomes more intense, the more risk they will seem to take. It will actually become exciting for them to take these risks and get away with it. Pay attention though because it will cost them!
• Excessive Computer Use When Alone– I mentioned that the phone was the second best means of communication for them. Well, the computer pulls up in third. A lot of emails and Instant Messaging will go back and forth during their affair. A lot of these emails fly back and forth when you are fast asleep late at night.
• Always Covered With Strong Fragrances– In many of these affairs, the two lovers are spending time out in bars, restaurants and even clubs and as they get cozy, her perfume will often be left on his clothes.0
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