all the time, it's very rare (but awesome) when you meet a girl and feel that connection right away. Usually you like somethings about a person but it takes time to get to know them and find out things you like about them.
If your talking about yourself tho, and you are in the friend zone then what she needs to find out about you is that you can pick up many women and choosing her out of all of them. That means you need to date other women while you are friends with her
Yep. When time goes by, and you get to know a person better, their personality alone can make them very attractive to you physically. I've met guys before that I just wasn't initially attracted to. But after getting to know them, some of them became the most attractive people I've ever met in my eyes.
Well with one guy, he annoyed me to the point where random rage outbursts were a common pastime between us.
He is a teenager and as such loves talking about girls graphically and always talks about cars, and I mean always. So yeah, very annoying. And in terms of looks, there really was never that much in the looks department going for him.
In the last few years we became really close, to the point where he is pretty much my best friend, and yeah, despite all the quirks, I really like him right now.