I feel as though men get the wrong impression about me! I like to party, I am outgoing, I try to dress nice, and I have long blond hair. I get lots of guys, but none of them ever seem to be GOOD guys. Are they just assuming I am easy/dumb because of these things? I meet lots of guys in my classes but none of them pursue me. Just the dumb guys from parties. I am actually really focused in school, and I am a virgin so I am by no means an easy girl.
Am I just meeting the wrong guys? Is it a "stereotype" that is causing problems for me?
"Likes to Party" = Hard to keep around/won't be faithful
"Gets lots of Guys" = Way too popular, too much competition
"Really Focused in School" = The reason guys you meet in class aren't going after you
"Blonde" = The straw that broke the camel's back
So yes, it's a stereotype. The only thing that you need to change is the "focused" part - odds are you come off as unfriendly, stuck up, and don't notice it, hence why the guys you meet at school don't "pursue" you.
Thats funny you sound like the girl I'm interested in (from class) but anyway the fact that you like to party would probably have an effect becasue the guys you meet a lot at I'm guessing bars are most likely not interested in anything serious just to get laid and those not looking for that may get the wrong idea and not want the kind of person you seem to be, they may not realize what kind of person you really are. As far as school goes why would you sacrifice school effort for some guy school is more important. I wouldn't say blond or dressing nice would be a big deal just don't put off those associated images, I focus more on the attitude than appearence when judging in that way "get lots of guys" I guess just just try to show that these guys are not who you are looking for and don't show any interest.