I feel as though men get the wrong impression about me! I like to party, I am outgoing, I try to dress nice, and I have long blond hair. I get lots of guys, but none of them ever seem to be GOOD guys. Are they just assuming I am easy/dumb because of these things? I meet lots of guys in my classes but none of them pursue me. Just the dumb guys from parties. I am actually really focused in school, and I am a virgin so I am by no means an easy girl.
Am I just meeting the wrong guys? Is it a "stereotype" that is causing problems for me?
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"Dress Nice" = High Maintenance
"Likes to Party" = Hard to keep around/won't be faithful
"Gets lots of Guys" = Way too popular, too much competition
"Really Focused in School" = The reason guys you meet in class aren't going after you
"Blonde" = The straw that broke the camel's back
So yes, it's a stereotype. The only thing that you need to change is the "focused" part - odds are you come off as unfriendly, stuck up, and don't notice it, hence why the guys you meet at school don't "pursue" you.1