Okay first off, I'm a shy college girl. I open up once I'm more comfortable around the person blah, blah. But to the part I need help on. I have a feeling I'm going to have a high sex drive (still a virgin). Sex is almost always somewhere in my mind & I have a feeling I'm going to like it. A lot! I'd like to control the guy...somewhat. Not sure how to explain it. Like come onto him, force him down? How can I break out of my shell & do this (once I have a boyfriend & were at this point of course)? Would guys be shocked by this? Like it? Or be like "Don't do that ever again!"?
Another question I'd like to throw in here...I'm attracted to girl-on-top and doggy style. I'm not sure why. Those two positions just really, really appeal to me. This wouldn't be a problem would it? And how could I bring this up to a guy/my boyfriend without feeling awkward? (And are "cute" butts still good for doggy?)
Girls - any of you have this problem & over come it? Do certain positions appeal to you?
Any help/tips/advice would be really really appreciated :)
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I think for the taking control, you don't need to worry too much. While guys may like or feel obligated to lead, I don't think it should be too much of a problem if, when things start getting a little heavier, you start pushing a little harder, and being more controlling. If you really feel nervous, ask, and he'll either be okay with it, or he might feel like that's a threat to his manhood, and say no.
The positions may be a little more awkward to just "do" but I think you could definitely ask while you're having sex, or before. I think most guys would be glad of a bit of a break, with cowgirl positions, and doggy style is a personal thing, but I would hazard a guess that most guys would like to try it. Yes, all butts are good for doggy.0