I don't know but like there are some girls who are outgoing and popular and athletic and everything but here's me..
today a whole bunch of people did a group volleyball game and so I went with my outgoing athletic friend, but I can't play and I'm shy so I took a book and sat in the corner and read while she played, to my dismay there was the guy I like there playing, do guys find it unattractive for a girl to sit in read and alone or should I be over there playing with them? sadly enough I scare a lot of guys because I'm smart and good at school but do they hate that?
take note the guy I like is athletic, smart, and shy, but he always plays in the Sunday volleyball game, should i?
Maybe I come off apathetic to most guys?
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Absolute turn ON don't even think for a second it is bad. Personally for me and for a lot of guys that I spoke to COMMUNICATION place a HUUUUUGE role. Me perfect example I broke up with my good looking wild in bed girlfriend because she was dumb, and I couldn't talk to her about anything literally. So, after few month I got bored because other then sex we didn't do much or spoke to much about anything because she doesn't know anything. Judge my or not, but for me smartness is a key to a very long term relationship and marriage rather then physical attraction and sex. It is like having a Super High Tech futuristic looking Navigation that doesn't do it's job ( showing where to go, navigate lol )0