for example when I dress nerdy, most hot girls won't look in my direction, heck they won't even invite me to club or party
when I dress like I'm going to the bar, response is different they are more willing to approach and invite me
what leads to girls judging guy like that ?
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Seems like your surrounded by extremely superficial females.
For me, the way a guy dresses generally doesn't have any effect on my opinion of them.
I mean, sure- if a guy looks cuter in a hoodie and jeans than he does in, say, a nice shirt and dressier pants (or whatever) then I'm obviously gonna prefer that look on him.
Your problem could have something to do with society's view of "nerds" as a whole- I mean, when I think "nerd" I think "weak, impotent, and possibly intelligent", so if you're dressing as a nerd or whatever, females may instantly categorize you as someone that'd be boring to talk to, someone who'd be a poor lay, or someone too physically weak to... I dunno, do whatever it is a man needs to do in a relationship. D8
if that makes sense.
But yeah. Maybe you just look dumb when you're decked out in nerd gear? =P1