After a strange text conversation with a girl I like this evening, I now know what it is about me she thinks could be hindering me when it comes to my love life (I asked her what things she thought could improve), and aside from the living at home situation, which at the moment I can do nothing about, it seems that dress is my downfall.
I can usually be found in jeans, trainers and a hoody/tshirt, although I do make an effort not to look like I've just been dragged through a hedge. However she says that my looks aren't that bad, but thinks if I was more "stylish", by which she means better fitting jeans, shoes rather than trainers and nice shirts, I could look better. I have a pair of shoes I had to wear to a wedding last month and I have some shirts, so I'm thinking next time I'm going to see her I could try and smarten myself up a bit and hopefully it might make her see me in a different light.
Is it worth stepping massively outside my comfort zone and making these seemingly little changes, or should I forget all about it?There's no right or wrong answer to this, but its bugging me because on 1 hand while I don't necessarily believe people should change to suit others, she is literally all I can think about most of the time
Most Helpful Girl
guys who wear shirts are seen as smart, they look after themselves and all guys look their best in a shirt.
i have a friend who doesn't get any girls whereas his friends do, he isn't amazingly looking but he is such a great guy, and at the end of the day, all women want is someone that makes them feel amazing, in more ways than one, and who they love to see all the time: compatibility etc.
just make sure, you don't look like uve done too much of an effort.
get a good pair of jeans, its always worth paying a little extra and having one nice pair of jeans that you know you will always look good in.
team that with a pair of smart shoes, and a shirt, untucked, make sure it isn't really creased! top button (or two) open and you can even unbutton the sleeves and roll them up your forearms a bit, I find that quite attractive for some reason.