I love this guy so much and even want to marry him but I can't date or marry him because he isn't good for me! I know him like the back of my hand and it doesn't help I have been there when he's cheated on his girl friends. I am around him every day and can't get away from him! How can I get over him?
Easy set down and make a list of all the sin in his life that is so obvious to you, then ask yourself is that the kind of man I want raising my children ? Or is it the kind of man I could trust with my heart and affections . Then maybe you will find a REAL MAN to give your love and admiration too, one who is willing to earn it ! Every woman likes a bad boy to a degree; but as the 70% divorce rate proves they are little boys at heart and just too big to spank out of their bad habits and childish way they think !
You could always find someone else. Hey, I'm available.
What Girls Said 1
Why isn't he good for you? Because he cheats on his girlfriends? If so then you definitely don't need him. Stop spending time with him/seeing him at all. When your mind starts to think about him think about something else.anything.the weather, whatever. Keep telling yourself you don't need him and get a hobby or something to get your mind off of him. Go out and find a guy.something. Train yourself, even though its hard, not to think about him. Keep yourself occupied and away from him as much as possible. Do not text/call/email him. Write down why he isn't good for you.