I met this girl the other day to work (My route usually falls into [Take Train A to Train B to Train C to Train D] Yes I transfer trains a lot). She was sitting by herself in a two seater (I'd say she is a HB9, if that even matters because it is fairly biased scaling a girl from 1-10), so I decided to take the seat next to her. I didn't initiate conversation at all, in fact, I was straight up trying to sleep. About 5-10 minutes into the ride (during Train A), she made a comment to me about her coat becoming too warm due to heat from the train's heater. What did I think about it? No idea why she was telling me this. Anyway, since she made first contact, I decided to follow up with 'So what are you on the train for? Going to work?' And so one thing lead to another, and we talked all the way through Train C (where she went to her stop). Throughout this conversation, I had made her laugh/giggle and disclose personal information about herself such as family, aspirations, job, and insecurities (such as finding a job post internship...*NOTE* She is a year younger than me and is currently taking an internship. I on otherhand just started the real life working deal). So at the end of the day, I got her phone number and she said to text her my number when we got out of the subway. I did, but did not receive a reply.
Today, I met her on the train again. We sat together and ended up talking through Train C again. She ended up mentioning (I did not mention at all) that she was sorry for not replying to my text because she busy (or something to that extent). Again, our talk had little to no pause and was fairly productive.
Problem is, how do I know if she is interested in me? And do you think she just gave me her number (after I inquired for it) and keeps talking to me (I ask her questions as well as she asks me about myself) because she is just a nice person or is genuinely interested? I also found out yesterday that she mentioned she had bought something for her boyfriend (but that one sentence was the only time boyfriend was used out of the two and half hours I spent talking with her)
Two days ago, I saw her on the train and was talking with her again. I made a comment to her about my awesome tie that I had on and she pulled a sweater I had on underneath the jacket and said she really loved it. Also, she mentioned to me that she needed a good excuse to get out of work because her boyfriend was paying for a ticket for her to go visit her (He's in a far away state and much older 9 years?). But yeah, after talking about that she said she'd see me Monday.
So I saw her on Monday, we had a nice talk again. I tried testing my bounds with her. Moved in to whisper something in her ear, she moved closer to listen to me. I also found out she wasn't going to see her boyfriend due to work reasons.
Also saw her today, she said if I she I was going to be on the train tomorrow. I said yes, and she said 'Ok, good'.
BUt yeah, I would write more, but character limit
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Well she seems genuinely interested in you. However, I suggest finding out a bit more about her boyfriend. I suggest this because I wouldn't want you trying something with her only to give the reason that she has a boyfriend and from then on it being awkward. So maybe after a bit more info learned about where the boyfriend is situated in her future plans, then I suggest making the next step. But otherwise she seems interested in you, and you have a great chance with her if everything goes according to plan. Good Luck and I hope everything works out for you0