I'm in a bit of a dilemma... My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year; we have talked about marriage and kids. Basically, we're in a serious relationship and we both want to take it to the next level.
Recently, I asked him if he would be OK with me looking through his laptop and cell phone, and he said no, insisting that it was an invasion of his privacy and he felt that it was demeaning to his manhood. So I left it at that. I am not the kind of person to look through his stuff behind his back--I think it's bad karma. But on the other hand, I feel that if he truly had nothing to hide, he would be okay with me looking through his stuff. I've caught him going through MY cellphone on a few occasions, and I didn't mind, although I was a bit annoyed. But if it assures him that I can be trusted, so be it.
Should I be suspicious of the fact that he is absolutely unwilling to let me go through his cellphone or laptop? Please give me your opinions--both guys and gals. I'd so appreciate some feedback... thanks! :D
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Of course you do! OF COURSE OF COURSE OF COURSE!
Forget the stupid idiotic answers below! The only reason you shouldn't be able to is if he is HIDING stuff from you.
Otherwise who cares?
People forget. Americans have a terrible habbit of thinking everything is theirs. ITS NOT. when you enter into a relationship you lose privacy and rights you had when single.
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