A deep, long, drawn-out eye contact is very important. You see, a voice is just a sound that we enjoy hearing, and it may turn us on, or it might just make our stomaches turn. However... Eyes are the window to the soul. Staring into each others' eyes is like speaking, but silent and subtle. You can read them, slightly understand them, and form a deeper connection JUST by sharing that short contact. The voice is nothing besides maybe pleasure, but the eyes are the soul and show more traits that lies within them. A man who can hold eye-contact, shows patience and value.
Eye contact definatly!...its something bout him actually lookin at me that just gives me butterflies and makes me smile...lol as long as its not some stalker creeper stare...a deep voice would be a bonus..makes him sound like a man!..haha