Im very pretty... And my boyfriend ( 6 months) keeps looking around.. If there's a hot girl, he looks at her till she's out of site. How should I take it?
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First off, not talking to him about your concern (if you have not done so already), and waiting to "blow up" at him at some future date, is not the right way to deal with this situation. I have seen this before. Girls, face it, most guys will look, and it has nothing to do with you. We don't do this out of disrespect or anything like that, it's just nature wired us guys to "appreciate" the female form if you get my drift. This does not mean we think your less attractive than the girl we are looking at. She's just different than you. Simple as that. This of course is no excuse to be rude about it, most guys try to be discrete, but if your boyfriend is drooling, or worse chasing, then you need to find someone else. Surprise number two, you girls look too, but you get caught less often because your better at it than we are. Most of the time, and yes I realize, that I am using a generalization here, but it suits the purpose. Talk to him about it, then decide how you feel about it after you do. Trust me, not talking about this now, will likely hurt you later.1