I'm single and older then most on this site. I take care of myself I'm healthy, attractive and dress well. I also work out so I have a pretty decent body. I love getting dressed because it makes me feel good sexy and elegant. I'm a strong confident women, friendly and well liked. I know guys look at me and there are some that I know like me. So why can't I get a date? Do you think that the way I dress is coming off as being desperate? I don't dress like I'm going out to a club or anything but I do dress in a way that complements me.
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Up until when I was in my twenties, I used to categorize female adults in two classes, the "old" ladies and the sexually desirable women. As for the men, I categorized them as the "old" men and the young punks. Silly, eh? That's teenager for you! Anyway, as I grow older, I noticed more and more women my age conform into my young-self "old" ladies type. The same goes with men. More and more men my age conform into the "old" men type. Some age well some don't. It depends on how well they take care of themselves.
I don't know your age but I think you are not far from me. If you are my age, then I must say that men our age who take care themselves well are few and far in between. The ones who don't will most definitely be intimidated by you because what is increasingly become considered as normal for people my age (around here) is, and this is why I answer this question anonymously, usually out of shape with sagging leathery skin. If you can get away with a little pudge and minimal receding hairline, then you are lucky.
What I am saying is, you being in good shape, made most of us nervous and insecure. We'll think: "What about if she sees me naked? Would she throw up a little in her mouth? I don't think I can stand it!". Or something like that.
That's what I think.
Good job in keeping yourself healthy, though! Keep it up!
Have you tried younger men?0