When I met my boyfriend I was 25kg lighter and still on the weight loss slopes, 10 hours kickboxing an gym a week and eating extremely health.
When we got together it was a struggle to keep it up as he would rather me stay home with him or go out for dinner snuggle for a movie, then go to the gym, I don't think he realized how hard I had to bust my ass to loose even a small amount... I've been overweight all my life, and my mind is already under constant war with myself over the issue so no need for abuse guys just your honest opinion.
Now 2 an a bit years, a mortgage and a baby later, I've put it all back on.
I work part -time and have our son the rest of the time, I know what it takes for me to loose weight an walking for up to the moment my son cracks it (15 min at most) a day just won't cut it.
We don't have the money for the gym or kickboxing.
My partner can eat a packet of tim tams and not gain a thing... I can look at them an ill gain a kg... he eats more then me a hell of a lot more. I have no health issues, Dr tells me everything is normal like a person half my weight.
I recently told my partner I have to loose weight I've put it all back on, ( I don't really talk about my weight)
He said he Loves me just the way I am...
He never mentions my weight and when I've mentioned getting some kboxing gear for home he acts like its not that important.
After he told me this I said its more about me not liking it.
he's been a lot more supportive about it.
I do have a pretty face... I don't have a big tummy, I stay curvy in the right places I gain and loose weight very evenly and a lot of people don't believe I am the weight I am.
Do you think my boyfriend is less attracted to me or even repulsed by my size?
If I didn't lose the weight in the future do you think that he would fall out of love with me?
Not that I'm planning to do that...
to make it more clear...
Do you think he is being honest in saying he still finds me as attractive 25kg heavier?