I tried all sort of diets but something happens, I get depressed, I get lonely and I end up eating again.
I also got a gym subscription, I was going everyday, but then I just got tired. Work really exaust me and I don't have any more energy after work.
I work early so I can't go to the gym before work, it's not even opened.
Now, don't get me wrong, I'm one of those dudes that are fat but not obese. I have been like this my whole life.
Needless to say my sex life pretty much sucks because I can't get a girl to go out with me, lol.
So I was hoping maybe there is hope for me, maybe I could find a girl to like me and give me the motivation to get in shape. But girls are so shallow these days I find it hard to happen.
I'm not judging, I'm a little shallow myself, not too much, but I definitely have some things I like and some that I will be just wasting her time and my time.
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My best friend is one of the cutest girls I know. She has guys hitting on her all the time, but she keeps telling me about her boyfriend back home and how much she loves him and she even has a five year plan with this guy. It's truly a romantic story. I finally get to meet this guy, and he's huge! He's not obese either, but he's a pretty big guy. And at first I was thinking: how could she be in love with this guy? But as I soon saw, she didn't even notice his appearances. She was in love with his personality. True story.
There is one other common factor they both shared. Because both have vowed to be chaste until marriage, it makes it easier for them to not be looking at the other in a superficial light. Typically when sex is involved in the marriage before marriage, that's all it's about: sex. And because TV and movies make great sex seem like it has to be with guys with rock hard abs and girls with perfect physiques, it makes it hard for the rest of us normal people to live up to their standards.
Now, it's your personal choice regarding the sex, but try looking for a girl who is more willing to get to know you for your personality and is mature enough to look past appearances. Trust me, there are plenty like us out there. Don't give up hope! I'm sure you're a great guy, and I'm sure that one day that special girl is going to love you for you!0