and another question on here made me realize this, and got me wondering, but how come it seems that most girls that fit this category seem to always be going out with guys that look like they came straight from the trailer park? or that look somewhat thuggish? I try to be a guy with class as well, and I know that I come from a great family background and I'm very keen on working for a bright future and I strive for success and good health and everything and uphold a positive image.
but what do these girls see in these guys? its like they settle for less and think a guy that is actually more of an equal is unattractive, because I've known some classy, beautiful girls that have come from a good home life just as well and everything, but I don't get what attracts them to trailer trash! not to sound arrogant or whatever. I'm a very accepting person and open to all people and friendly, but I get very confused and somewhat mad when I see a girl settling for someone that is a little below her level of worth. I really don't understand the way girls think, or if they even do at all. lol
why can't they just be attracted to someone they actually have something in common with?
To you they're settling, to them they're dating who they're attracted to. They don't see it as settling, you see it as settling because they're not dating you lol People don't date other people for no reason. If you're seeing that big of a pattern, there must be something these guys are bringing to the table. Aside from that, you can't judge a book by its cover. Just because he doesn't dress "high class" like you do, or come from a privileged family, doesn't mean he's trailer trash or beneath you.
My sister is like this... She's seriously one of the most beautiful girls you will ever lay your eyes on. And not only that, she's completely financially independent, strong willed and hard working. Regardless of all these fantastic qualities and the ability to get any guy she could ever want, she still goes for trailer trash. I don't get it either.
I used to be one of these girls. For me, it was either a rebellion or the fact that he would verbalize my strong points so blatently that I felt loved and important. So there ya go; rebellion or self esteem issues haha
Well I can say not all classy and beautiful girls are like this. I'm always told by people that I'm very attractive and that I carry myself like a lady. I'm very ambitious and hold myself to a high standard and therefore I've always wanted to be with a guy that would be compatible. But you know what? Only the overconfident, thuggish, player types approach me which is always disappointing. I've "settled" for an attractive player just because he actually had the guts to approach me and I've regretted giving him even a second of my time...oh well. So I could ask guys the same question.
wow you and me are quite similar, except I'm already taken. I met my current boyfriend at university because we both have a personal drive to better ourselves. I strive for success too and if I ever have kids I want them to have a good life too. My boyfriend and I have a lot in common we have similar hobbies, and aspirations. You will find someone class and beautiful but friendship is worth much more than looks.
why should you care, if she doesn't like you move on. its that simple, less people to worry. no pain caused
her dad won't approve. its a part of that "i don't want my dad to like my bf" type thing. that they go for. so even the beautiful classy girls decide to get the "bad guys" cause they know itll p*ss her dad off