and another question on here made me realize this, and got me wondering, but how come it seems that most girls that fit this category seem to always be going out with guys that look like they came straight from the trailer park? or that look somewhat thuggish? I try to be a guy with class as well, and I know that I come from a great family background and I'm very keen on working for a bright future and I strive for success and good health and everything and uphold a positive image.
but what do these girls see in these guys? its like they settle for less and think a guy that is actually more of an equal is unattractive, because I've known some classy, beautiful girls that have come from a good home life just as well and everything, but I don't get what attracts them to trailer trash! not to sound arrogant or whatever. I'm a very accepting person and open to all people and friendly, but I get very confused and somewhat mad when I see a girl settling for someone that is a little below her level of worth. I really don't understand the way girls think, or if they even do at all. lol
why can't they just be attracted to someone they actually have something in common with?
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To you they're settling, to them they're dating who they're attracted to. They don't see it as settling, you see it as settling because they're not dating you lol People don't date other people for no reason. If you're seeing that big of a pattern, there must be something these guys are bringing to the table. Aside from that, you can't judge a book by its cover. Just because he doesn't dress "high class" like you do, or come from a privileged family, doesn't mean he's trailer trash or beneath you.0
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