I'm a 21 year old nightlife guy, who spends at least two of my free nights a week going to the same bars on the same days, and hanging out with the same older crowd where we all know each other. For the most part good characters.
I'm very friendly, energetic, and talkative, smoke half a cigarette when I drink, and barely ever got wasted.
I'm just a bit self conscious that this lifestyle is a red flag for girls. I've been working in bars since I was 18, bouncing, bartending, throwing concerts, working as a lighting and sound engineer, managing bands, and all that fun music junk. It's very important to me. Maybe, I'll find a nice office day job, but for now this is my career and I love every day of it.
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if you enjoy doing what you do, then you never "work" a day in your life :)
you're young you got energy, enjoy your career, some girls find that very attractive. However, if wanna settle down one day, then you might want to changes a few things and get more into the daylight.0