I am a 20 year old college student. I'm social, I have lots of friends, and I enjoy going out and having fun (parties, dancing, the usual) but I honestly don't feel comfortable around any girls my age.
I have had girlfriends in the past, high school mostly, and I've never really had a hard time getting a date. But ever since college, I've honestly thought that most of the girls I've met have been really fake, and despite how physically attractive they may be, I'm just not interested.
To be honest I find the majority of them fake and shallow. I find most of today's style and fashion over the top, and unappealing. To me tattoos and most piercings are a deal breaker, and I've been meet with a lot of criticism for this attitude.
In addition to this I think that people today are far too sexual. I am by no means a virgin, but I could never imagine being with any of the girls I meet. It seems like all of them have had several one night stands, cheated on bf's in the past, or have been with more guys than I have birthdays. I don't mean to judge, but those just honestly aren't the kind of girls for me. I feel like everyone in my generation doesn't take these type of things as seriously as I do. I'm not religious, and I honestly don't like people that are very religious, I'd just like to know if there's anyone out there that feels similar to myself.
I feel like I'm setting myself up for a lonely life with these values, but I'd honestly rather be alone than change myself for someone else's approval. Am I being unrealistic, or maybe I'm delusional? I don't really know. How am I supposed to meet someone my own age? I feel like I'm the only one my age that feel this way. What should I do?
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Ugh, I totally agree :/
Even though there are dozens of great girls at my university, I can't agree more that a ton of girls at ANY university are just so fake. Just as a lot of the guys are. People who are purely self interested, self absorbed, and self centered. One night stands are just ways to pass the time until they mature or find someone...
Ugh, guys are just... They'll love themselves more than they could ever love anyone. I could strike a match at all my wasted time on guys at my university :P They're so self loathing, they honestly think they're the hottest things in DC. I managed to find someone worthwhile back in my home state; I'll see how that goes.
I get a lot of heat for the way I dress; I'm always wearing dresses, always. Some of the hardcore feminists on my campus think I'm making some sort of sexist statement lol.
I think if you look a little harder, learn to sift through the fake ones, you'll find the actual girls! Maybe at other universities, too.1