my boyfriend told me that I could never be beautiful no matter how hard I try. he said this before and now he's apologizing 'cause he was just so mad at me that's why he said that. but I'm not blind to the facts, I've got a very small nose, almost a flat nose, I have tan skin, I'm not tall, my hair is black and shoulder-length only, I've got huge thighs since I like riding a bike, I've got fat lips, way too huge eyes and I'm also very skinny. I guess the only consolation I get is that I've got a nice hourglass shape and I'm not flat-chested
he told me he's really guilty about what he said and that he's sorry and he thinks I'm beautiful but I don't wanna believe him anymore because I'm really hurt ... what should I do?
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He doesn't sound like a keeper. =/ You're under 18 right? Which means when you get older there will be other guys who will find you attractive and think you're very beautiful. Maybe you never will be beautiful, ... in HIS eyes. Beauty is, also, in the eye of the beholder. If he said that when he's mad, maybe that's how he truly feels. =(
Anyway, don't let one's guys opinion effect how you view yourself. He won't always be around. You should think for yourself that you are beautiful and then it will not matter what other people think.
(Easier said, then done. I know)1