I mean actually when your in love what actually happened at the start of the relationship. did all you's wanna do was rip each other clothes of or was it different like you just wanted to be round them like you would want to be round a best friend?
You know your in love when you don't want to rip of there clothes,you would rather get to know the person .When you look at them and see BEAUTIFUL .And the urge to please them is stronger than your need to be pleased,in fact you will only be pleasured if they are satisfied then becomes an experience not an act. And you will then realize what making love is,that is when you are in love.
well its kinda equal like if you love someone you deff wanna pleasure them you wanna make them feel good and you wanna feel good but yes I'm in love and I think about just being there for my girl when she needs me just as much if not more then thinkin bout us having sex