Is it true guys decide if a girl is datable by her physical attractions . I've heard a lot of well ' the "hot " girls are girlfriend material and then the girls that have a nice personality are the ones your going to " settle " down with . I don't get it why can't you just pick the "good " personality girl first . And a bonus question why don't you just pick the nice girl first . Why do you go for the " hot" girl. If you saw a girl that was hot and nice would you hold on to her ?
- I'd go for personality firstVote A
- Looks firstVote B
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Good question. Maybe a 2 part answer 1) I think looks may a guy's attention in their younger years and then we find out whether that girl has a decent personality or not. 2) As we grow older, we begin to realize that looks may not be a good starting point at all, and probably it's better to start with personality.
I am not suggesting that looks will not be important at all because we all want to be with a decent looking partner. It's just that as time goes by, looks seem a little less important. My lesson came in college when I had 2 dates with undoubtedly the most drop dead gorgeous girl in the school. Nothing came of it -- her personality sucked.
Bottom line -- as we mature we get a little better at it.3