I always feels that my wife does not know anything about this and I feel it so unsexy. She always wears those regular skin color bra's that do not go with all colors and then, they show up coming out of the tank top in ways that looks awful. But I don't know what other girls wear. Every girl I see around, they look so sexy in those tank tops. Please help.
I'm the same as your wife. I understand that the bra peaking out the top of the tank top isn't exactly "sexy" but seriously. A bra is a bra. They are freaking expensive and the pretty ones are usually not practical at all. Besides lace bras under tank tops show and you get this hideous lump boob thing going on...not cool.
Besides...what is the point...you are going to stare at the thing a few seconds before it comes off. If you really like sexy bras so much why don't you find out your wifes size and go buy her some that are especially FOR the bedroom?
I usually wear whatever colour bra I have. As long as it doesn't show up through the tank top. I also wear ethier a strapless bra or I hook the two straps together on my back. (There are special things for that you can buy or some bras come with the attatchement) This way you can't see the straps.