some people say you should stop looking for love because once you stop looking and disregard the opposite sex, it will come to you...
I think that's full of crap, but I'm willing to try it
what do you think ?
Most Helpful Girl
yes I believe it, when I keep looking I make a guy that is not all that have all these qualities he doesn't even have, because I am just trying to find the guy so hard. When I am not looking, I have noo expectations I am just out and about, I end up meeting guys and after a bit I am like wow I like him, than I kind of like the guy for what he really is. If it makes sense, when you are out looking also with all those expectations in your head, you act differently and make what it is appear more than what it really is. lol Don't go out out and for reasons hey may b I meet a girl (or guy) tonight, go out and have fun with w/e it is you do w/e activity enjoy life, and at some point you will meet someone special I am sure. You can't plan life, and you can't go on searching for the one. I don't believe it happens that way.1