When I'm in bars, the making of eye-contact doesn't seem to be the biggest problem. I think I'm reasonably attractive and it often happens that I have short eye-contact with a cute girl or a girls is smiling at me.
Still I find it very hard to approach them, I mean I know they MIGHT like me, but they're 10/20 meters away and I don't got a 'cause' to go and talk to them. And if I wait to long most girls will definitely have noticed that I was hesitating for too long.
So girls, whenever I have some kind of(short) eye-contact, and maybe a smile, what's the next step?
How do I approach her?
When do I approach her?
And what do I say(don't you get very very bored by all the cheesy pickup-lines guys use, like 'do you come here often' and 'you're the most beautiful girl in the club'?
Most Helpful Girl
smile back wait 20 seconds walk over to her and say something like "have we meet before you look really familiar" like maybe at work or something pick something were a lot of people could be around you and then name it...or say " hey I saw you from across the room and I was just wondering if you wanted to dance?" but personally I like going the funny rout I love when a guy comes up to me and makes a joke about how guys are so unoriginal about pick up lines, or even something else that is funny because if a guy can make me laugh its automatically going to make me like them more...0