I'm a black chick and I hate to toot my own horn but I'm really pretty, I know because people have told me I should be a model (I'm not tall enough tho :( ) and when I ask everyone to rate me (I'm sorta shallow..hey everyone has their faults) everyone says I'm like an 8-9ish. I have really long hair and long eyelashes (and yes they are mine) but NO GUY has ever asked me out, like ever. Guys will only like me it seems for a month or a couple of weeks but then completely loose interest. I go to an all white school so I was thinking maybe it's because I'm black because no matter how fugly you look, if you're white (and no I'm not a racist) you can have the hottest guy at school. And I know it's only at this school cause when I go to the Bay Area hella guys try to talk to me and get my digits black and white (by the way I'm only attracted to white guys), so in high school is color still an issue?
I shouldn't have said I'm ONLY attracted to white guys I just said that because there's no point in liking a black guy anymore...nother question for another day baha
If you're a model pretty girl you shouldn't be so unsure of yourself. Be super confident and stop trying to impress guys who can't see past your race. If you're a bad bitch act like it. A lot of times you will see a difference in the way guys at school treat you vs. guys in other areas treat you because you don't have the social politics and insecurities from people at your high school. Guys in the bay area have an unbiased view of you since they don't go to your school and deal with that high school drama.
BTW don't write off guys of your race. that's hypocritical to write off all black guys but then complain about white guys overlooking you because of your race. you never know the next guy to treat you right might be a black guy
color doesn't matter. SOME white guys are a little intimidated of black girls I know this because everyguy I know asks me "how do you do it man? get a black girl.. they're just so unpredictable" and I say "dude girls are girls" :}
Race isn't NEARLY as big a deal as hotness. If you're hot, you'll get way more than your share of attention from guys of every race. Enjoy!
I wouldn't be embarrassed. In fact, I'd welcome that. I didn't date anyone in high school, but I wouldn't have overlooked an attractive girl because of her race. It would be hard to say why they aren't dating you since I don't know you personally. It could be a variety of things. When they show interest in you the span of weeks and months, nothing materializes from that at all? Do they just stop talking to you as much?
I don't know how things in high school in us and if there color still matters...but maybe the guys are just afraid to ask you out- because you are so pretty! That happens really often. They think they out of your leauge and even don't give it a try! Honestly and if guys don't tryin to hook up with you, because your black- than no matter how handsome they are-theyre not worth it! :-)
If you're only attracted to white guys, then they may only be attracted to white girls so you can't complain. Date people for personality and not skin color. Don't worry I used to be like you too, but I learned to expand my horizons and get to know people of all backgrounds.