What are the first three things that you notice on the opposite sex?

Just curious :-)

Updates:
It's been a while since I posted this question (and I'm really enjoing all the answers!) but I suppose I should post the first three things I notice...

1. eyes

2. smile

3. the way they interact with others... if they're rude or funny or kind, etc... :-)

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  • 1) face -tells me alot. I can estimate her age, I can estimate her expression, smile, eyes, etc.

    2) body -this is not just sexual or physical attraction. this tells me if she takes care of herself and if she has any self-respect or is lazy. she can do the diet pill skinny thing to keep from being fat but it doesn't hide anything. You can tell the difference when a girl really works out and takes care of herself and a girl that just tries to be "skinny" or fit in to certain sizes or reach certain weight number.

    3) overall style -is she a follower or a leader. does she get in line and march to the same beat and terrified to stray from the flock? Does she look like every single other girl that walks by with all the same trends? Or does she lead? Does she do her own thing with confidence and not rush out and get the same ugly ugg boots (p.s. you girls are not peter pan and you are not hunting sasquatch in the northern territory-please get over that trend) and stuff like that so she can fit right in and not have to take any risk of being an individual? Style can tell you a lot about a person.

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What Guys Said 25

  • Hair, shoes, smile.

    Specifically -

    I like big hair for anything other than blond, for which I prefer long hair.

    I had a girlfriend who taught me about the messages and thought processes that go through a girls' mind when picking out shoes, so I always scope those out.

    The smile is not just for attractiveness, it's personality. I'm only really into people who like to laugh and have fun, so a smile is a must!

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  • Physically?

    - Eyes

    - Body

    - Body language

    ~Distant

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  • Ass, face, and eyes ^^, but then that gives you a hint into what I find attractive in a woman. No anorexic girls.

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  • 1st facial expression I like it when a girl smiles

    2nd her hands, if she has her hand cupped making a fist then I feel she is either nervous/stressed or isn't in a good mood.

    3rd My eyes go to either her legs or her butt

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  • #1 hair

    #2 skin tone

    if they are wearing short shorts then

    #3 legs

    if they aren't then

    #3 butt

    if they are facing me then replace #2 with face

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  • smile and eyes, I couldn't pick between them lol

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  • face shape and neck relation.

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  • 1. scent

    2. body language

    3. hour-glass figure

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  • Eyes, then look from head to toe of the body, then Body language.

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  • Attitude: sense of humor, way they act with others

    Eyes

    Overall body style

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  • 1. Smie, pretty smooth hair, and boobs.

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  • boobs

    ass

    and eyes

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  • This'll probably sound weird but:

    1 - Hair

    2 - Eyes

    3 - Way of being.

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  • 1 face and hair

    2 legs

    3 butt

    4 boobs

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  • face (smile, eyes), clothes, ass. (really only care about the face but you asked for 3)

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  • Butt, eyes & complexion

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  • well, maybe, deppending on the situation,

    1, clothes, 2, people around them, 3 face.

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  • Eyes , Tits and ass

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  • how pretty is she, breasts, buttocks. not in that order.

    damn human nature. oh well.

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  • lips, hair, smile... not necessarily in that order. I would also add what she's wearing to that ;ist

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  • eyes.

    smile.

    height.

    hair.

    that's four but, I couldn't pick between them

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  • Hair, Eyes, Body.

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  • Eyes, hair, and what they're wearing.

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  • hair

    facial structure

    chest

    Someone had to admit to the last one. It's not my biggest criteria but c'mon men admit it, we notice them pretty quickly =P

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  • Physically?

    Eyes, hair, skin tone

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What Girls Said 20

  • Eyes

    Tone of Voice

    Smile

    Hands

    Body

    Everything else...

    Confidence, sense of humor, respect, chivalry, eye contact, and a personality are ultimately what is sexy in a guy for me!

    Thanks.

    Jamaica Outtttttttttt

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  • Voice (deep, amused, thoughtful, dumb, tenor, etc.

    Generally I like deep well spoken voices in my men, it says a lot. )

    Height (If they're even a couple inches shorter the guy is generally regarded as friend material, I'm a tall girl, I can be picky)

    Body type (I know it sounds bad, but I like guys who are strong, I don't mind if they're a little thick as long as they've got muscle underneath, and a broad strong frame. Deffffffinitely not into androgynous guys.)

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  • 1) face - eyes smile skin

    2) height - sorry but I need someone taller than me, at least 3 inches taller

    3) body- this includes body language

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  • Face

    Body

    Attitude

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  • Hair

    Face

    Style

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  • 1.Face

    2.Hair

    3.Shoes

    4.Hands

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  • hair, eyes, height.

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  • Height, eye color, and hands (As far as physicality.)

    Sense of humor, attitude, and intelligence (As far as mentality.)

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  • eyes, mouth, teeth, hair.

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  • His style (clothes he's wearing), his smile, his eyes

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  • face, height, sense of style

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  • Hair

    eyes

    and smile

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  • Eyes, smile, muscles, hands

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  • 1.Smile

    2.personality

    3.appearance

    4.scent

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  • 1smile

    2 eyes

    3 body language

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  • 1.Hair

    2.What they're wearing

    3.Smile/Teeth

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  • chest, height and smile

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  • height

    smile

    skin

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  • 1. Height

    2. Lips

    3. Eyes

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  • Eyes > face> smile > shoulders> butt lol.

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    • wtf? what do you look for in a man's ass? lol the muscularity?

    • just to see if they have a little junk in the trunk lol

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