I split up with my husband and I really liked this guy. We had talked a couple of times. I finally got his number and text him. Well we started texting on the same day he came over for "fun" With the understanding it would just be a "booty call". We did talk for a while about general stuff after we were done. Fine we did that I didn't text him or call him at all after. A few days later he text me we talked that day then he came over for another "booty call" Still just sex. Question is do I ever have a chance of this turning into something more or is that all its going to be?
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You are still being the teenage girl who puts out as a means of attracting males. Grow up. That is a very unhealthy way to live, it will only lead you disappointment and heartache. Don't get me wrong, if you also just want physical exchange of pleasure I'm fine with that, but if you are secretly doing these booty calls to win affection stop it immediately. I find honesty so much more attractive. Would you dare tell him the truth? That you are attracted to him and are trying to initiate a relationship. I would find that very flattering were I him and would probably be receptive to your advance.1