I'm not married but I was thinking about this scenario. Men, say you are married, you think she is attractive but she finds out she has breast cancer and then she goes through chemo and loses her hair and possibly has to have a breast removed and you don't find her attractive anymore and possibly see her as less of a woman because lets face it she has 1 boob and a scarred up chest. is it justifiable to leave her? I mean you could wait for her to either lose the battle of until she is through with chemo and healthy again
Men are visual characters therefore women need to continuously keep up their looks. Getting cancer can really screw up the way a woman looks, so during chemo she needs to keep herself looking good. Wear a wig, get implants afterward, get laser treatment for scars and keep fit. It is OK to leave because guys want good looking girls, not unhealthy ugly girls
What the f***? The whole purpose of getting married is to stay with the person you love forever, you don't even need to be married for that! Obviously you wouldn't love her if you were willing to leave. I have a high chance of developing breast cancer, so its nice to know where some guys stand on that.
My mom's chest isn't all scarred up, she has both of her boobs and they're real, and her hair has grow back.
People like that give no help to people in my situation and others who have the possibility of developing it, or have it already.
That is really shallow by the way.
What about women? You asked only men, so would it be not okay if a guy was to develop cancer? Not saying it is, because I would never leave him for that, even if he was only a boyfriend.
So, when you get married you'll be wanting to change the vows so they say for richer and in health but none of the bad stuff? What kind of relationship is that? Seriously now...Does this mean that when your wife gets wrinkles, or grey hairs or stretch marks from giving birth you'll leave her because she's 'damaged goods'?
Relationships are not all about appearances, ones that are will be doomed to fail. I hope you learn this sooner rather than later.
a real man wouldn't leave his wife. just an a**hole would do that. a lot of people I know have gone through breast cancer and lost breast and their husbands still love them. Looks aren't everything those who really find love is what's inside not looks
oh my god I cannot believe this question. your disgusting. no if you love the girl thenb who gives a sh*t is she doesn't look her best. and you would be just screwed up if you left her because she is ugly on the outside honestly. and best answer my ass. the women is battling cancer sure its nece to look good but she shudnt care if she is battling sucha life threatening disease so an man who leaves his wife because she is ugly due to her battle with breast cancer can just go to hell in my mind
my dad didn't leave my mom when she had breast cancer, he told her he still found her beautiful even after she lost her hair. she hated how she looked so he bought her some really nice human hair wigs made especially for her, he was there for her through everything. in return my mom stood by his side until he died...they really did love one another. I know I'm a girl but I just wanted to answer...i think a guy would stay if he was truly in love and not shallow
how is this even a question? teachers always told me there's
no such thing as a stupid question, but THIS, is a very stupid question.
the answer is obviously HELL NO.
I hope people don't get married just for looks. If he doesn't care about her then he should leave her. No one needs to make a poor cancer women feel worse than she already does. But what kinda person would be that vain?
That would be cruel, when you marry someone you love them deeply and you are willing to stay by their side under any situation.
No. You should stand beside her..be together in the good & the bad times. If you did so, that's considered betrayal...