normal man...hmm everyone is different but normal to me would mean he is between 5' - 5' 7", cute laugh, intelligent, reserved feeling until in love, sporty, drinks a little, filled with pride, competitive, honourable,
this question is almost impossible to answer. so many different types of behavior fall under the spectrum of 'normal'... but if I had to list some attributes I'd say normal men are level-headed, intelligent, & aware of social norms...
I think, by referring to "normal" you meant "what he's supposed to be, ideally," realistic and not those fake ones walking out from soap opera.
For me, I would imagine him to simply be someone who takes care of himself at some level but not too clean (because according to my experience, too neat and too complicated guys would later proved themselves to be gays at the later stage), someone who takes things easy, not to be so complicated, respect and not criticize women. A normal (and attractive) guy should have his brain as the sexiest organ in his body.
If left to themselves, normal men will sit on the couch amid empty pizza boxes for weeks on end, in month-old underwear, drinking vodka out of the bottle, and chain-smoking unfiltered cigarettes, while looking at dirty pictures on the TV.
Poor choice of wording in this question. To be "Normal" is to be Average; which makes you Predictable; which makes you Boring. You don't want to be Boring; You want to be Attractive. Not just in a sexual sense, but attractive as a potential new friend, employee, etc.
An Attractive Guy is Confident. Believes that he is attractive. Believes that he always has something unique or useful to bring to anyones table.
Cares how he looks, but not Too much.
--Wears well fitting clothes, but doesn't wear a tuxedo to lunch.
--Has his own style that stands out ("Hey, what's up?"), but doesn't jump out ("Look at me, look at me!)
--Puts effort into making his hair look good ... or does he? ... (There's an Italian word for this but I can't remember.. It is defined something like this.. "To do something without appearing to try" or "To appear to be using little effort to do something". An example of this: Guys with messy hair that still looks good. It looks like all they did was roll out of bed and their hair just happened to end up in a nice looking position, but it wasn't an accident...usually...)
There's plenty of other stuff too. Learn from other guys that seem to be doing things right. All you have to do is watch them. See what it is that they're doing that might make them more attractive to people and then steal it and make it your own.
you are who you are and that is all you can ever be, but is exactly what you need to be. Don't ever label yourself as a prep, emo, punk, hippie, geek or in your case abnormal I guess. Just be yourself and be proud of it.
The core attribute of a 'real man' is good sense. Just making sensible, thoughtful decisions. But when you're 16 or 25 there's no point in aspiring to sagacity. You may have to have a few breakdowns before you can find a good honest path.
Im assuming what you mean is like what do they like etc. Most people picture men as liking sports, being strong, not showing emotions, generally shallow, and only get along with girls when they want sex.
But in my opinion forget it. Everybody is different and normal is whatever you want to be. If somebody has an issue with who you are well screw them, and you deserve better from whoever it is.