Sure I'm not the life of the party, I'll admit that. I'm not really that experienced at getting girls either and usually end up amazed/pissed at how easily other guys can play a girl that I'm genuinely interested in. I just wish that being a little shy/quiet didn't make me the equivalent of a leper. I'm completely confident in everything BUT girls since I have not had one relationship where she didn't completely screw me over. I really don't get it how I have a hard time dating since I'm in shape now, am 6'4", work as an analyst in the navy, play lacrosse, bass guitar, do MMA, volunteer with kids and dogs, and I am starting a business on the side. I don't think I'm unattractive but who knows? How could I have such an awesome fulfilling life but be completely and utterly undateable? I can't count how many times I've been friend zoned. Are there any girls that would overlook my initial shyness and get to know me?
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good looking quiet guys are intimidating. I've met guys like you and I've assumed they just werent interested in me. if a guy doesn't talk to me I just assume he's either in a relationship or I'm not his type. the guys who get girls are the ones who go after them. it's not anything that's wrong with you, but I guarantee if you did what they did INITIALLY TO GET THE GIRL'S ATTENTION you could get girls. you're expecting girls to overlook your shyness when it's typically the guy who initiates getting to know the girl. it's just how society is, I'm not saying it's right but when I meet a guy that's fairly attractive with all his sh*t together but he barely talks to me, I think he probably isn't attracted to me or is either taken or could do better than me. that's all you have to do, you have everything else right just let women know you're interested!1