how does a guy know if he looks good enough? and if your not Gorgeous but normal? are you at a disadvantage if your also quiet
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lol. A few of my girlfriends and I just had this conversation. We think a guy who has amazing hair, beautiful eyes, great smile, wonderful laugh and can keep us laughing is gorgeous. oops I forgot the great pants that make hisbutt amazing.
but everything I (we) just stated is subjective. So you never know, for me if I see a guy who is brilliant, his hot points go up by five thousand, if he is mushy they fall so far so fast.
With girls it is not all about the physical. For instance, during this conversation with all my girl friends, we had been talking about dating prospect. I of course had to chime in with a boy in my math class who is "normal" or at the very least no my style but yet, I put him out there as a prospect because, I enjoy his stereo type, like blue eyes, and was completely turned on because he got straight "As" on all his assignments.
Personality is the best "equipment" a guy can have. So if your shy, make sure you are at least interesting. And you are at a disadvantage, because shy people generally don't ask out very many people. But courage isn't that absence of fear. So prioritize, if you think it will be worse for you not to have a girlfriend, or if it will be worse to get turned down.
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