my hair is not the Victorias secret long lustrous locks with volume and bounce, its rather long past my shoulders and kind of flat/thin but is silky and smooth? is that a deal breaker? I'm a brunette btw
No man will notice and think, "oh, she doesn't have much volume in her hair." Don't worry about it. You're being conditioned by the media to think you should look a certain way and it's all nonsense. :-)
Dealbreaker, not by a long shot. Ok, so you can't recreate the slow motion walking down the stairs scene shown in a dozen hollywood movies, it's not a big deal. It's like asking "Is it a dealbreaker that I don't look like (insert supermodel here)?"