i have a general question. I don't want one specific answer because I know there isn't one and everyone has different preferences, but do women find certain men intimidating, and if so why? what about them is intimidating? looks, status, how they hold themselves, etc.? just be general, unless you _do_ have something specific, then by all means, share!
Intimidating? I would say the crazy ones that have power in one way or another (KKK, Hitler, Stalin) etc. The ones that are completely convinced that they are right and that it's the way it should be. The one's that murder and don't even think twice about it. Other than that I can hold my own with most men. There is one guy though that intimidates me but that is because he is a man I have fancied for years now. He is quite possibly the most arrogant person I know and he is so charming. I get twitterpeated in front of him even now (7 years later)
I never really thought about that before, but I guess I would have to say I'm a bit intimidated by confident guys. Not all of them. I hang out with this kid in one of my classes who's clearly confident and really outgoing and social, and I'm comfortable with him. But the guys who are confident and give off the vibe that they don't care what anyone thinks of them--they're completely secure in who they are--I don't know how to approach them. I guess it's because they don't show any vulnerabilities. Everyone is flawed in some way, so dealing with people who don't show that side of themselves is intimidating.
I asked the same question, only it was about girls!
Most girls are not intimidated by certain guys. (If you don’t believe me, notice how the hot/cute/smart/rich guy is surrounded by a swarm of women!)
However, if a guy gives off the air of being “unapproachable,” or is obviously out of her league, then she might not deem it worth her time to try to garner his interest. But it depends on the woman—some women are up to the challenge!