you girls want us guys to be totally honest with you, but when we are honest with you, you get mad at us. Why? If you want total honesty why get mad at us? Just like when you ask us if the dress your wearing makes you look fat? You want us to say no of course not, but if we were total honestly with you we would say yes it does make you look fat, you cow!
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Well, as from what I've learned over the years, I think when most men try to be honest, they are pretty much brutal. There's a way to be respectful, thoughtful, and easy when expressing this honesty. Like instead of a guy saying, "Yes it does make you look fat, you cow", you could say instead "The way the dress fits, it doesn't flatter your figure good". Something simpler and that won't cause hurt feelings. Basically, be honest, but express that honesty in a way that doesn't cause any hurt feelings, if it's negative honesty.1