"Covjek se zaljubi gledajuci ženu, žena se zaljubi slušajuci covjeka". J.Ducic go to google translate choose croatian.should I trust that quote? should I trust your quote? I choose not to trust either,both men and women value looks,and both of them value personality.looks get people near you,personality makes them stay.
Except for the guys you should add in there's only a certain level of unattractiveness you can fall to that my love will blind. Example: I'll still love you 5 - 10 lbs more but anymore than that & we have to work on it.
Looks matter to guys and girls equally. To say they don't is just foolish.
Love is when you see an imperfect person perfectly. To me, that implies you're still attracted to them on a physical and emotional level. You don't "overlook" looks in a relationship, it's just that the way your partner treats you and how s/he makes you feel becomes more important over time.
When I say "looks don't matter", I'm lying because they do. I'm not saying I was my girlfriend to be a goddess. I'm not even saying that I deserve that. But I MUST be sexually attracted to a girl if I'll ever consider dating her. That doesn't mean she's traditionally viewed as attractive. Maybe, that makes me a monster.