The most good looking people in the school always get girls for some reason, the people that are slightly less attractive never get any attention. I've had like 3 or 4 girls try to talk to me but this is nothing compared to the attention that other guys get. At least they can get a girlfriend.
What I also found to be very shallow is that all the guys that get girls all have dark hair and tanned skin, and apparently if I don't look like that I'm not attractive. I have brown hair, green eyes, tall (5'10) with lightish skin, but it doesn't mean I'm ugly. I actually find girls with dark colored hair and eyes to be less attractive, but that's just me.
Honestly? Sometimes I look at physical appearance first but that's on a very rare occasion because most of the time guys become more attractive after I've gotten a taste of their personality. For example there is this one guy in my school that almost every girl finds attractive in one way or another. But for some reason I just can't bring myself to find him attractive because I've heard things about his personality and the way he is. On the other hand this guy that I'm currently smitten with I didn't find attractive at all in the least at first but over time I developed an attraction to him. All my friends don't understand it because they don't think he's cute in the least bit but as far as I'm concerned at this very moment he's the reason the sun rises in the morning and sets in the evening. Just talk to some girls and let them see the inner you. Yeah this might not work for all girls but I truly believe that the girls worth dating will not be so superficial as to judge you based off of first appearances.
You know, it might be a matter of age. This goes for both girls and boys. When you get older you really noticed that your ‘dream girl/boy’ doesn’t have to look like you always pictured her/him when you were younger.
Sure, everybody is attracted to different things, has different preferences. For a long time I was mostly attracted to the tall and dark type. The guy I’m dating now isn’t super tall for a guy (5”9), he’s blond… he just looks different than ‘the type’ I always had. But it’s been years since I met someone I felt this attracted to. And that’s mostly because he has all the qualities that I really love in a man. So no, I don’t think girls only like a guy because of his looks. But I get that when you a teenager you’re new to the ‘love and dating game’ you “choose” your partner because of different ( and maybe less important) things
I don't get this question you have a few girls interested in you it's just not as big as the other guys. Are you jealous?
So the girls like dark hair & tanned skin. I'm sure you'd pick a light haired/eyed girl over a dark haired/eyed girl because that's what you're attracted to. So why get upset when they do the same and follow their attraction?
looks=trash. I don't go for someone whos so incrediably handsome, I don't even think their attractive if they have an annoying, ugly, cocky personality. I like the down to earth guys, I don't really ever think guys are attractive right off the bat. I always talk to the person and if they make me laugh a lot then bam they become attractive. THE UGLIEST PEOPLE can be attracitve depending on their status and personality. But most girls sadly do. :/
hahah I'm 19 and I even think a blading 28 year old is so sexy. Maybe I'm jsut crazy ahahah who knows. They're normal, personality loving girls out there
Okay firstly I have dark ahir and dark eyes but no guys ever go for me. And secondly most girls want to be seen as the best and most loved in the whole school, that is why they go for the guys who are perseved as hot. Now to answer your question, no I don't go for guys who are suposedly hot, I go for guys who make me laugh and smile. There is no point being with a guy if I'm going to be crying the whole time. Now another thing, stop complaining that you don't get all the girls. Pull your head outta your ass and stop expecting girls to talk to you. Find a girl that fits your description or an attractive girl(light hair and light eyes) and talk to her. You will get further with girls if you talk to them first. Hope I helped in a screwed up way...and sorry if I offended you, I'm not really a sensitive gal...
well that's really offensive...i don't know you I have never seen you before...your even to p**** to let us know who you are, but I'm not saying because your tall and you have light hair that your unnatractive, for all I know you could be a totally hot guy or a totally ugly guy, so you labelling all dark haired girls as ugly is just jugemental and stereotyping...no wonder no girls will talk to you
and also...you say that you find dark haired girls less attractive but your saying that it's shallow that the girls like guys with dark hair...someone really needs to not be so judgmental of some people (sorry if I offended)
Personality is DEFINITELY the 1st thing I look at. If his personality is what I like them I definitely care about looks.
Age 18 and older the more unique looking people get the most attention, from what I can see. Things will change.
i don't think girls only like guys for looks that's just a bonus if a guy is cute but is a really big jerk I'm not going to have a crush on him! but most of the guys that I've liked always were funny and sweet and knew how to charm girls and by your description I wouldn't say your bad lookin ;)
if it were that way the divorce rate would be 100%
Looks are important, I have to be physically attracted to someone just as much as I am attracted to their personality. But its the other way around too, looks are not everything, I can't stand being with a boring guy- even if he is gorgeous. But I think that guys who are considered to be "attractive" have a lot of confidence because of the attention they get from girls and that confidence makes them have a nice personality that we find attractive. No girl in her right mind- even if he was way cute- would be with a guy who was not interesting in any way. There needs to be balance. Maybe you should try and show off your interesting side a bit more. I'm sure someone finds you attractive.
EVERYONE uses looks as a first impression and reason to be interested in someone. If you were at a party and an ugly girl and a gorgeous girl walk in, who would you go up to? Exactly. Girls automatically like attractive guys. If the guy later is an idiot or a jerk than usually they drop the guy, but looks are first impression. Always.
At first yes they are, they will pay more attention to the better looking guy, but it doesn't mean they will always choose him over the ugly guy. They may talk to the good looking guy and find out he's a complete idiot or a jerk, and because of that it will turn them off to him. Now when the ugly guy comes along and she has a conversation with him, and she finds out he's actually a pretty smart and cool guy, she will them become attracted to him.