Ok, I have this wonderful girlfriend. I love that we are together, and I've had a few other superficial issues that I've worked on. I'm not normally self conscious, but I'm around a lot of different people in my life, so I do concern myself with how I carry myself.
With that said, how do I get my girlfriend to stop wearing sandals. I love her, and have even given up all hopes of a foot fetish in order to be with her, but she should keep those puppies covered!
Sadly, they are not cute, and I don't want other girls talking about her (we're around a lot of them). She has gotten into great shape recently, and before she would always keep them covered, now she is breaking out the open toe shoes.
She still tries to angle them so people don't directly look at them (I notice that often) but still insist on wearing them.
I don't want to make her anymore self conscious, but I can't go on like this...what do I say without being hurtful?
This women is the greatest thing to come into my life apart from God. I refuse to be to source of any hurt or pain, inflict a blow to her confidence, or chip away at her greatness.
I know with me, if I don't vent the little things, they quickly become the big things. So thank you GAG, and all that gave answers!
I'm going to let it go, grow up, and love her for all that she is. period
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It's getting hot outside.. we like to wear sandals. Maybe I'm weird, but I don't go around looking at other people's feet in an up close and personal manner. I don't really notice people's feet/toes. But if she feels confident enough to wear sandals, more power to her. Don't look at her feet if it bothers you.. it obviously doesn't bother her or else she wouldn't wear them. There's nothing you can say to make her cover up her feet that's not going to make her feel self conscious.3