im a handsome guy, good looking in the face, but the only thing is I have a bit of fat in the stomach region... I'm well fed and enjoy food ;) but I'm not big or stocky or even like actually fat. just a little bit of a gut, I'm also not very muscular. if I lost about 10-15 pounds I'd probably be a stick!
anyways. thoughts, opinions? is it that big of a deal or does it turn girls off?
Not a big deal at all. My guy has some extra in the belly area too. I mean he's just big in general, tall, bulky, a good amount of muscle [not like like cut or super toned or anything], and a bit of a gut. My point is that it's different body types, but with a similar 'issue', and I'm insanely attracted to him. I don't think you'll have a problem.
Oh my god, you look like a normal human being - HOW DARE YOU!
Honestly, if a girl seems to mind that much, she's not worth it. Just like we want you to still think we're when we don't have washboard abs, we understand you're not a magazine cover, you're a real person. I don't tend to notice minor imperfections - or don't consider them imperfections - on most people. So, while you may be conscious of your 'gut', there's a good chance most girls wouldn't even notice it's there.
It is not a big deal but I would prefer someone who is slim and in shape. Personality is way more important. I dates a guy who had a good face but was short and rather overweight as well. He's 5'3 and I'm 5'0. He was super funny and a great gentleman. So it's not a big deal to have a gut
Ummmm. The guy I'm dating is handsome, good looking in the face, and tall but he has a little bit of a gut. Surprisingly, I'm not turned off by it and I only noticed it on our third date. He treats me like gold and seems like such an amazing guy so I don't care at all. it's not a turn off so don't worry about it. :)
Women don't care, I used to have a beer gut from well drinking too much beer, and eating too much fast food in college, and I got laid all the time. Just look around you, how many guys do you see that have a gut have either a wife or a girlfriend, I would say the majority of the population.