OK so I'm asking this anonymously so I can pretty much tell the truth without sounding stuck up or anything, but :
I'm told I'm pretty hot, I've got DD boobs and I'm quite skinny, I've got long brunette hair and I'm about 5"6, my friends say my face looks like the face of a china doll, so I'm guessing you got a pretty good idea by now.
i ALWAYS buy him amazing presents, eg. phones etc.
I'm always there for him, and always invite him places (he's never once invited me round or out, always me)
i provide him with a pretty good sex life, whenever, whatever, wherever, and I seriously care about him and love him.
we've been going out nearly a year now, and he still just doesn't give a sh*t about my feelings, meeting up, or getting me anything, and he seems reluctant to spend time with me etc, yet he clearly loves me deep down, I know that for sure...what do I do?
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I think what you're doing wrong is the things that you have listed as what you are doing right.
If you're doing all of these for him even if he acts like he doesn't care about you at all, well, why would he ever put any effort to your relationship?
Everything is going perfectly smooth for him, even though he treats you like a random stranger. Win-Win for him, sort of.
I learned by experience (and through a broken heart) that if you do everything for a person that does nothing for you, it will eventually become a one-way relationship, like it is in yours.
I might be wrong though. But if I am right, you need to talk to him about this. Tell him how you feel neglected even though you believe you are doing everything for him. The way he responds will pretty much determine both the progress and the productivity of the conversation.