Girls seem to be saying on here that a high maintenance guy is a turn off. How much maintenance is 'allowed' so to speak?
Is it about what he does? Is it a turn off if he shaves some of his body hair (but I mean like the ones that girls are saying they don't like eg back, neck etc)
or is it about how much time it takes him? 'Doesn't take as long as me to get ready' is the common answer, but well if that's your answer, how long do you take? What if he still did the same amount of things as you but was quick? What if he took not as long as you but still almost long is that still a turn off?
Is one hour a day to get ready plus maybe 2 or 3 hours a week for other various stuff too much?
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I think high maintenance in a guy is usually someone who is way too consumed with his appearance and is just self absorbed.
It can also be a guy who is just really needy. Compliments and sweet things are one thing, and are appreciated, but its a whole different thing to say them nearly every single text. It tends to read as needing reassurance, such as him judging how I feel about him based on my responses. So its high maintenance in the sense that it takes a lot to maintain his confidence.1