He gave me his phone to figure some of the functions out (I'm good with technology) and I was tempted to put my number in... but just felt it would look desperate and clingy...
We click on many different levels and I think he's hilarious..
At one point our feet touched and I nearly just grabbed his face and kissed him.. lol
We all hung out for a couple hours and had a great night..
I felt like saying and doing so much more.. but I''m being a calm, cool, and collected lady for now. After all.. it's only the second time I've ever met him.. and this time there were some of his friends present. Can't have them thinking I'm a weirdo.. right?
Ack. Should I have just put my number in his phone? I just figured if he wanted it, he would ask for it.. Now what? Should I wait..
or shall I fb him telling him what a great time I had and what a babe I think he is.. :D LOL HELP ME BEFORE I SCARE HIM OFF
Hahaha I sense a crush, so cute :D. I have had a girl just put her number in my phone a couple times and liked it. It was cute and let me know that they wanted things to go furthar. My advice is to stop worrying about coming across as clingy and start focusing ondoing things that present you self as what you stated, calm and cool. When you worry it puts you out of charecter.
Hmmmmmmm... if you want to go for the promiscuous 'come and get me look' carry on with what you are doing. Being 'interested' but not interested could make him chase you about but it sort of depends on what kind of gifl you are, by your comment about his friends thinking you're weird I'm guessing you're either open, cheery and enjoy a laugh or quite quiet and reclusive in thier presence? Either way DO NOT give him your number, if he's interested he'll try and get it, that's one of life's tasks for lads... 'getting her number'
You give it to him you may aswell wear a hat saying 'I like you' or he'll think you want sex...
I would have put your number on his phone, and just say that if he had any more questions to text you :P That is an easy way of getting him to not feel like you are being clingy while also being flirty at the same time. You could message him saying that you forgot to give him your number. Just be like "Hey, I had a great time last night. Hope you phone is working well. Here is my number if you have any questions or just want to chat ### ### ####". :) Hopefully he takes the hint, but if not just forget about him :)
Stay calm, cool and collected. Unless he was brain dead, there is no way he does not realize you had a great time. So you two have a mutual friend and you know how to reach him on Facebook so he should be able to figure out how to reach you too. You need to wait. If he is interested and available he will contact you.
The best relationships involve a back and forth in interest and communication, in other words, you need to let him participate in the process of reaching you. Seeing how over the top interested you are in him, if you don't give space and time for him to show you how interested he is, well you could scare him off or simply just never really know how much he wanted to see you. It is so much better to find out early if a guy really digs you or just enjoyed your company at that moment. If he feels as strongly about you as you feel about him, he will be contacting you soon.
well you've only been around him a few times, try finding him on Facebook and mesaging for a few weeks/days to figure each other out. See if he is interested in things you are, if he is single and isn't crushing on anyone else but available. Know what I mean? Then hopefully ask for his number so you can call him for the date or possibly he'll ask for yours. good luck
Well if you don't get his phone number some other woman will