I think if you read past posts on breasts, you'll find most guys here dislike fake breasts as do I. I like the natural look you referring to. I don't like it when a woman wears makeup, I don't like tattoos, I don't like piercings, don't like painted nails, and don't like styled hair.
Most of those aren't deal breakers, except if she had too many tattoos or too many piercings or piercings in the wrong places. That may put me outside the norm, but I'm sure I share some overlap with other guys.
It is always tempting ( I am no better or different) to lump the opposite gender together...and yet...we are vastly different...I am probably more similar to YOU than some of my male neighbors...despite our age & sex & nationality differentiations..."tanned" does nothing for me...I don't dislike blondes and have dated them..but would be my last choice for hair color...I say I don't like makeup...but I am OK with eyes & lips...what I really hate is that sh** that some females smear all over their cheeks, "slutty" ? I like females that give me sex...I just don't like it when they give it to other males... personal problem? lol
Do you really believe that all guys want someone with a fake tan, fake eyelashes, fake boobs, and all the other stuff you mentioned below? You're 16 and most of the guys you know are going to want to have sex. Sexual urges are hard to control at that age and they are going to go through the path of least resistance to a girl's pants and that happens to be that tanned, bleach blond, slutty chick.
We like hot. Hot is good. If it's natural that's even better. But made up hot beats natural ugly like a red-headed step child.
And don't hate. Just because a girl is hot and all guys want to f*** her, doesn't mean she will let them or that she's a slut. Plenty of ugly sluts out there too.
I think when they say "natural" it probably means that they like a girl that is not "fake" and that means she is "real" as in she will be logic in her thinking. Other than that, ofcourse everyone can get "tan" it's just like going outside to the beach. People can get their hair lighter, some people naturally get lighter skin in the summer due to the sun. they can be "hot" and it can be natural. I'm naturally 5'3, 120 pounds, curvy 34,26,38 and I have long streaked hair (light brown with lighter blond highlights) and it's me. I'm real. There are girls out there of all types and who is to say that they can't get a guy to notice them just because they are what you described? They might have a great personality and is really down to earth.