every night before I sleep I always think about what it would be like if a girl liked me, I imagine all the cuddling and kissing we'd do and how much I would love her and let her know. But then I come back to reality :( and just hug and cuddle my pillow until I fall asleep
why am I the only guy around me that has never experienced what having a girl is like? /sigh
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just randomly came across this, but he's my suggestion.
Quit worrying about trying to get a girlfriend, meaning start with baby steps.
If you can't already talk to girls without pulling away from their eyes, start there. I read a lot from what I can see in a girls eyes. If they're shy, confident, just being friendly, or interested in me. They can do the same. If her eyes are too intimidating for you, then how will you handle the rest of her body?
If your main focus is the physical stuff (cuddling/kissing), that's cool and all with me but unless you have game, that approach will only make you a creeper.
Here's what I call a "mission" ( I do this for me and a friend), I try to set one every week:
-talk to a new girl
-get a new girls number
-Ask one on a date.
Rinse and Repeat.
I didn't start with all 3 but once you can do the first one, you move on. By the time you realize you are getting numbers, you forget that you've been naturally talking to tons of girls just cause they're there. Oddly enough Girls are regular people too!
But my most important tip for you: Get more friends of the female gender. If you genuinely can show her how much you'd care for her, it'll come out naturally. Because it seems like you'd take anyone bro, that's no bueno0